What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?

Disclosing feelings, fantasies, and experiences to the client in ways not related to the work the client is engaged in.

These items can happen fleetingly, briefly, in any therapy, but if they’re frequent, it’s definitely time for the therapist to get some good, solid supervision/consultation.

Serious disappointment when the client cancels a session.

What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?

Routinely going over the time limit with certain patients, compromising the time for the next client.

Sense of competition with persons who are important in the client’s life.

Eager anticipation (or anxious anticipation) of the next session in ways that distract.

What are some other ways to respond to someone saying "thank you" besides "de rien" or "vous êtes bienvenue"?

Struggling with fantasies of deeper connections with clients, whether sexual or parental or other intense or intimate relationships beyond psychotherapy.

Session-expressed curiosities about client details not relevant to the therapy.

Failing to mention the client in supervision/consultation, out of fear the supervisor/consultant will advise return to ordinary healthy boundaries.

How do you view men and women who cheat?

General Introduction to Boundaries from Panahi Counseling:

Off the top of my ancient head:

Frequent phoning or texting of clients to “check up on them and make sure they’re OK.”

How do you emotionally react to when others seem to feel sorry for you?

Obsessing about clients outside of work hours.